男人單身的理由

理由一：崇尚自由

自由對某些人來說或許很重要，但對另一些人來說卻是一種借口，因為我們可以說為了自由而不去趕愛情這塘渾水，多麼瀟灑。實則因為這些男人都是屬於“愛無能”一族──失去愛人的能力。

理由二：存有陰影

也許被前任女友傷得太深，對愛情存有恐懼感，所以需要很長的時間去物色一個適合的女友。結果，蹉跎了歲月，也逐漸被事業捆綁了，到最後乾脆說沒時間。

理由三：沒有適合的伴侶

找個情人跟你風花雪月並不難，但要找個伴侶陪你度過下輩子卻馬虎不得。結果踏破了鐵鞋，到頭來卻發覺那些所謂的好女人都已作他人之婦，怪只怪自己當初看走眼了。

理由四：生活艱難

在百物飛漲，民聲沸騰的情況之下，能養活自己已屬萬幸。找個女友來陪，恐怕自己要活在水深火熱之中。算了吧，兩個人痛苦不如一個人痛苦，總好過你看我，我看你，多無奈。

理由五：物質主義

人人都要舒適的生活，如果能的話最好可以撿現成的，你總不能叫別人一起跟你努力吧？這也難怪，在資本主義的社會裡物質才是最真實的，沒有屋子，至少也要有車子吧。

理由六：習慣一個人過活

也許單身慣了，發覺原來孤單並不可怕。據說，孤單可是一種境界呢！學會孤單，等於學會了坦然面對自己。當面對自己變得不再困難時，待人處事便不是一項難題。既然沒有東西難得了你，那麼愛情更不是難題了。

事實是，單身並不須要理由，會編出理由的無非是要說服自己單身並不是本身的錯。只是，這些人都太孤傲自卑了，也許這些理由能讓他們堂而皇之地以單身一族自居，睥睨痴男怨女。

人生道路上的选择

有些人一辈子都在对抗命运,找寻着自己想要的东西.可是忙来忙去,终是在兜圈子.以为逃避了一切,自己就会快了些.很多事情都没有答案,或者应该说"很多事的答案,不是你要的".不管结局是不是你想要的,你都得面对.有时不是你要的未必是最好的,我们应该如何取舍呢?
随着时代的进步,观念的改变,人的要求也不一样了.时代的巨轮不断地在演变着,那么传统的观念是否应该继续保存着.精神上,我们的要求也改变了.以前的贫苦,已经不复存在.换来的,是物质上的享受.但是,人类所追求的,变成了精神上的享受.但是越虚幻的事,却越难掌握.虽然如此,我想大概只有不断的追寻,才可能会有答案.到底应该大步向前,或是接受并妥协,你的选择呢?

Changing for the better

It's been a long time since i put something here. Everytime i feel to blog meaning something happen to me. Exams period now. Really scared for the last 2 papers. Bai tuo Bai tuo.. let me pass.. haha.. pathetic! Since the days of poly, i never really had this kind of feelings. Time for me to work hard to get the result. Time for me to forget the failures in my life.


This paragraph is specially for someone. Just hurt someone, dunno whether you will see this blog or not. I know i went overboard this time. But i dont want to hurt you in later part. I don want you to feel insecure. I am just this selfish. Forgive me. but i dont want you to wait for me for another years. Waiting is very a soul draining things. I hope to be able to remain as good friend. I know you dont like to hear the word, but i still have to say sorry.
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About life, I am now trying to make things out of my life. Hoping to see something after 3 years of failing by my own standard. this is the most important part of my life. Hope things went well. Things are slowly improving. I have finally have some courage to face some facts. Thanks a lot to the challenge. Although i did take sometimes to overcome it. I am always this slow. haha..